Attraction With Women
Does it seem like you always end up in the “friend zone” when it come to women? I know it can be really frustrating to go out on several dates with a woman only to find out that she only sees you as a friend. It feels like you’ve wasted all that time (and money!) and gotten your hopes up only to be let down. Well, let’s talk about how to build attraction with women
The first reason why you might have trouble building attraction with women is because women may think you’re too boring. Are you always agreeing with whatever she says or going out of your way to make her happy? I’m sorry to break this to you, but women find this boring and this isn’t the kind of guy that excites women and makes them eager to go out with him.
Let me introduce you to a little technique called “Push / Pull.” This is something that pick up artists (PUA’s) use to send women on emotional roller-coasters of excitement. Basically all you need to do is say something that initially sounds like you’re rejecting or insulting the women, but then at the last minute turn it into a compliment and reel her back in.
For example, if she is telling you about how she wants to travel to Italy and eat truffles and drink wine in the Tuscan countryside, you might say something like, “What? You want to go to Tuscany? Okay I can’t talk to you anymore! [this is the “push”] I lived in Siena for a semester when I was in college and we’d just end up talking about chianti all night! [this is the “pull”]”
The second reason why you might be having difficulty creating attraction with women is because she doesn’t see you as a physical person. Do you keep your hands to yourself like any “decent and respectful man?” Well, if so that this is really hurting your chances with women.
Try to occasionally lightly touch her from time to time. This is what pick up artists call “kino.” By lightly or playfully touching a woman now and then you send a subtle and unconscious message to her that you are a physical being.
If you can combine this with the Push / Pull technique above, then you can quickly build a lot of sexual tension that will leave her very attracted to you.
Don’t go overboard with the kino though. Make it just seem casual and friendly. Don’t grope her in the middle of the club (at least not until later in the night *wink*). You don’t want to be overtly sexual at first with your touching. Take it slow. Trust me, a little bit of this will go a long way.
If you use these two tips you should be able to spark attraction with women. I know that these two things may seem very insignificant but they really work and they will keep you from ending up in that dreaded friend zone. Just make sure that you pace yourself with both of these techniques and don’t come on too strong or you might creep her out.