Flirting Tips For Guys
Most women (especially hot girls) are naturally good at detecting flirting signals from men. Shocking truth? This may be a good news for you. I’d like to share a few flirting tips for guys here so that you don’t end up being like that obnoxious guy that thinks he’s flirting when he’s whistling and cat calling at anything with a dress that walks by.
Flirting Tips for Guys – How to Get Women to Flirt With You?
Well, first thing you need to understand is that it only counts as flirting if it is (a) not serious and (b) makes the woman feel good.
Flirting Tips for Guys – Learning to Be Less Serious
A lot of guys are way too serious when it comes to hitting on girls. You’ll hear guys shouting out things like “Hey baby! Wanna go back to my place?” This is not flirting because in most cases the guy is dead-serious. He is only communicating how desperate he is. This is not flirting.
Instead try saying things that are funny, imaginative, and aren’t too serious. For example, you can go up to a woman in a bar and say something like, “Hey my friends and I are going to go rob the bank down the street. Our get-away driver bailed on us. We’ll give you 5% if you drive us to the airport.”
This is fun since you’re obviously not about to go rob a bank (I hope) and you can can keep flirting as you negotiate what percentage she should get. Can you start to see how this works?
Flirting Tips for Guys – Remember to Be Uplifting
The second part is that it should make the woman feel good about herself. Going back to our drunk friend hollering across the bar, “Hey baby! Wanna go back to my place?” this does not make the woman feel good about herself. Think about it. He obviously doesn’t know anything about her, and he’s desperately hoping that she’s “easy” enough that she’ll agree hook up with him without so much as even a little conversation. I wouldn’t feel good about that either.
Instead be playful and make sure that the experience is enjoyable for the woman. For example, if you’re having some kind of conversation with a woman about how she is a performance dancer, you might says something like “Stop talking about dancing! You’re turning me on way too much and I don’t know if I can handle it!”
Here, you’re complimenting her. You’ve actually managed to learn something about here (she’s a dancer) and you’re telling her that you’re attracted to her because of that. Here you’re also opening the door to her flirting back with you. She could drive you crazy for the rest of the night doing little dance moves, or she might even let you take her home to “show you her entire routine.” Do you see the difference?
These are my two flirting tips for guys. I think most guys just need to relax and just have fun and all of this will just come naturally. It seems that most guys put way too much pressure on themselves when it comes to succeeding with women. Just learn to be a fun, easy-going guy and the women will come naturally without much work at all.