How To Please a Woman In Bed
A lot of guys want to know how to please a woman in bed and out in the real world too. Talk to just about any guy and you’ll find that this is a topic that causes a lot of confusion for men. I mean, all the time you see these chumps out there showering women in all these presents and wasting money on expensive dates and turning their whole life inside out just to make the woman happy.
If you’ve started to realize that this isn’t an effective strategy, then you’re ahead of the majority of men out there. Let’s talk about what actually does work though to build strong connections with women and get them attracted to you.
Ditching the Conventional Wisdom to Spark Female Attraction
This is going to be completely counter-intuitive for a lot of guys out there, but more often than not, the best advice on how to please a woman in bed (or anywhere else for that matter) is to not go out of your way to win her approval. You see, women will often test men by making demands or trying to change plans at the last minute just to find out if you’re unshakable or if you’re just going to collapse to her every whim like a house of cards. Women like men that won’t cave into their every demand. It shows you’ve got a spine.
Of course, this all requires that you know when you’re being tested. A lot of guys out there spend a lot of time worrying about what to do when a woman tests them. There really isn’t any need to waste your time worrying about this stuff though. Just practice getting in touch with your own personal values and what you like. Then just stick to your guns when the woman tries to pull you away from your values. It’s just that simple. No need to memorize a bunch of scripted responses to countless different tests.
Navigating Her Emotional World
Of course a big part of knowing how to please a woman in bed is being able to take care of her emotionally. Women, as a general rule of thumb, are not like us guys. They don’t communicate directly and say what’s on their mind. They communicate indirectly. They want men to be able to fill in the blanks and use their intuition to predict what her needs and desires are.
Now, as a man, this is obviously a little frustrating. I don’t know about you, but I’m certainly no psychic. However, more often than not, predicting what a woman wants in any given situation can basically be boiled down to either certainty or significance. Why these two things? Well, just take a look at any women’s magazine (I know, I know. Things like Cosmo aren’t manly at all… redeem your manhood by flipping through a gun magazine afterward). But my point is: advertising companies spend literally billions of dollars researching this stuff and pretty much everything that’s marketed toward women is trying to instill a sense of security or a feeling of significance in her. These companies pay big money to determine this stuff.
So the next time you want to give your woman a feeling that you’re there for her emotionally, take a time out and ask yourself if she would probably respond better to security or significance.
How to Please a Woman in Bed Physically
They say that how you do one thing is how you do everything. It’s pretty much the same when it comes to knowing how to please a woman in bed. If you’ve got the other things I’ve talked about nailed down (passing tests and being there for her emotionally), then anything sexual will just take care of itself automatically. This also means that if something is off in the relationship, then the first hint will be in the bedroom.
So take a few minutes to ask yourself how you’re doing in these three areas and you’ll find that learning how to please a woman in bed or out in the world is much simpler.